The first time I ever gathered women in my living room, I was nervous.
Not because I didn’t love the women I had invited, but because I wondered:What if it felt awkward? What if I wasn’t “enough” to lead?
That evening, something shifted. The candles flickered low, mugs of tea warmed our hands, and one by one, women shared pieces of their hearts that had been tucked away for too long. By the time we hugged goodbye, I realized we hadn’t just met for conversation — we had tapped into something ancient, something that felt like home.
Why Women Long for Circles
Modern life often leaves us surrounded by people but starved for connection. We have WhatsApp groups, Instagram feeds, and networking events, yet so many women quietly whisper to themselves: I feel alone.
Women’s circles are the antidote. They bring us back to our roots — the fire pits of our ancestors, the kitchens where stories flowed, the quiet evenings when women leaned on each other through love, loss, and laughter.
The truth is, when women come together with sincerity, the atmosphere changes. Walls come down. Healing begins. Laughter feels louder, tears feel lighter, and somehow, you walk away standing taller.
This is why women’s circles matter: they remind us we are not alone, and they help us remember who we are beneath the noise.
Where to Begin: Find the Common Thread
If you’ve ever thought about starting your own women’s circle, the best place to begin isn’t with rules or structure. It’s with something shared — a thread that ties you all together.
It could be:
- A hobby you love (yoga, journaling, reading, crafting).
- A cause you care about (philanthropy, mentoring younger women, community projects).
- A shared stage of life (women in their 20s exploring identity, mothers supporting each other, professionals navigating careers).
- Or simply the desire for intentional connection.
When you gather around something you all hold in common, the circle instantly feels less forced and more natural. It’s no longer about “creating an event” but about nurturing a space where women already belong.
What Actually Happens in a Women’s Circle
People often ask me: “But what do you do in a women’s circle? Do you just… talk?”
Yes, we talk — but it’s so much more than that.
Imagine this: You arrive after a long day, shoulders tense, mind buzzing with to-dos. You sit down, and the first thing you hear is laughter from across the room. Someone hands you a cup of tea, another lights a candle, and suddenly the air feels different — slower, kinder.
In the circle, every woman gets a chance to share what’s on her heart. No one interrupts. No one tries to fix her. Her words are simply received. Then someone else adds their truth. And slowly, the room becomes a tapestry of stories, each voice strengthening the other.
Sometimes there are rituals — like journaling, setting intentions, or even dancing. Other times it’s as simple as sitting in silence together, breathing in the comfort of not having to perform.
The magic isn’t in the “activity.” The magic is in the container — the shared agreement that here, you are seen, heard, and valued.
The Power of Intention
One of the most transformative things about circles is the power of intention. Before each gathering, I like to ask: What do we want to leave with today?
Sometimes it’s lighthearted: joy, laughter, a break from the daily grind.
Other times it’s soul-deep: healing, courage, clarity.
When women unite around a shared intention — no matter how small — the energy magnifies. Suddenly, the circle isn’t just a meeting. It’s a sanctuary.
And here’s the secret: intention doesn’t just stay in the room. It follows you out the door, into your relationships, your work, your inner dialogue. It creates ripples.
The Role of the Host: More Space-Holder Than Leader
If you’re worried about “leading,” let me reassure you: a women’s circle isn’t about having all the answers. You don’t need a perfect script or a spiritual certification.
Your role is simpler, yet sacred: to hold space.
That means:
- Making women feel welcome.
- Encouraging openness without pressure.
- Keeping the flow respectful and inclusive.
- Protecting the circle’s confidentiality and trust.
Think of yourself as the gardener, not the sun. You don’t force growth — you just create fertile ground, and the women bring their own light.
What Makes a Women's Circle Last
Many circles begin beautifully but lose momentum after a few months. The ones that last have something in common: they evolve with the women inside them.
At first, it may feel like a book club with deeper conversation. Later, it might transform into a space for activism, a sisterhood that travels together, or a support group for life’s biggest transitions.
Flexibility is key. Allow the circle to grow, shift, and breathe. When it’s rooted in real connection rather than rigid structure, it naturally becomes part of your lives instead of just another item on the calendar.
The Unexpected Gift
What surprised me most about starting my own circle wasn’t the joy of leading. It was how much I personally grew.
I learned to listen more deeply.
I learned to sit with silence.
I learned that every woman — no matter how confident she seems — carries hidden battles and unspoken dreams.
Most of all, I learned that when women come together, we don’t just heal ourselves. We heal each other.
A final thought
If your heart is nudging you toward starting a women’s circle, take this as your sign. You don’t need a perfect plan. You don’t need a dozen people. All you need is a spark of intention and the courage to invite even one woman into it.
Women empowerment also begins with how you nurture yourself, your environment, and your own inner growth. I dive deeper into this in my ebook The Modern Woman’s Handbook: Lessons Every Woman Wishes She Had in Her 20s & 30s.Check it out my ebook below
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Because what begins as a simple gathering could become the most transformative sisterhood of your life.
✨ Here’s to the power of circles, the strength of sisterhood, and the beauty of women rising together.
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